Colt of Personality
Colt Spence Takes the Crown as King of Kink
By Mike Nelson
Colt Spence has quickly risen to become one of the most popular and recognizable stars on KinkMen.com, and it’s not hard to see why. A genuine fan of the platform long before he ever stepped in front of the camera, Spence brings an unmistakable passion and authenticity to every scene he films. His journey began in 2022, when he left behind the familiarity of Chicago for a bold new adventure in Las Vegas, where he filmed his first scene with the legendary kink studio. Since then, he’s appeared in over a dozen high-intensity scenes, earning a devoted fanbase drawn to his raw enthusiasm, work ethic, and deep respect for fetish performance. As Spence himself puts it, “I’ve wanted to be an adult film performer for a very long time,” and that hunger, combined with his eagerness to learn and push boundaries, has made him a standout figure in the world of BDSM erotica.
What do you love most about being part of the kink community?
Colt Spence: I’ve always had a particular fondness for people who aren’t afraid to be themselves unapologetically. I think it takes a lot of nerve to be different in our society and the kink community is a great example of that. Once I became a practicing member myself, I was surprised by how unaccepted it generally still is even among queer people. Despite this, you still see the kink community representing themselves at pride or even hosting their own events which specifically showcase their wants and desires. I think having that kind of attitude for the things we love is exactly what we all need, especially with everything going on in the world today.
Some people outside the community have misconceptions about BDSM and kink.
What would you say to those who don’t “get it”?
Colt Spence: I would explain to those people that although BDSM isn’t for everyone, there’s nothing wrong with learning new ways to connect with one another. BDSM requires a massive amount of trust in your partner and it’s a great way to connect on a deeper level. If you’re at all curious, I highly recommend doing some research on your own, particularly from experienced and reputable sources like KinkMen.com.
Do you have a favorite KinkMen scene?
Colt Spence: There are so many scenes that I’ve filmed with KinkMen that have a special place in my heart for different reasons. If I had to choose one, I would pick “Payback” starring myself and Heath Halo, directed by Christian Wilde. The scene was filmed out in beautiful North Carolina at a recently-demoed nursing home. I worked in Construction before getting into adult film so it all felt very familiar and understanding the characters was easy for me. Not to mention I got to work with Heath who is such a beautiful man and someone I’d been wanting to work with for a long time. Everything just fell into place so perfectly and the final product is one of my highest rated scenes yet.
Is there a particular scene or partner that stands out as especially intense?
Colt Spence: My scene with Derek Kage. I can’t help but to smile every time I watch or even just think about it.
How do you maintain trust and boundaries during a shoot?
Colt Spence: It is much easier to create and maintain trust than it is to find and rebuild it. It’s important to connect with your partner ahead of time and feel out their energy and comfort level. As a Dom performer, I know my scene partners are putting a lot of trust in me to respect their limits. I always make sure right from the start that they know I take this very seriously and that I’m genuinely looking out for their wants and needs while we perform. Once that relationship is established you can really have fun with each other and start to push some buttons.
What’s your preparation process like before filming?
Colt Spence: I exercise regularly, eat fairly clean and always get plenty of sleep leading up to the day. The most challenging part is making sure my mind is prepared. I don’t think people outside of the industry understand how much of a mental balancing act performing on camera can be. I’ve seen so many performers get in their own way over the years by overthinking their every action. The trick is to keep yourself calm, stay focused on the goal and just have fun with it. Ultimately, we are all here to make the fans happy so they can experience the same pleasure we do.
Are there any kinks or dynamics you’ve discovered through filming that you now genuinely enjoy off-camera?
Colt Spence: You know, I was shocked to find out how much I enjoy flogging! It’s not easy to do in my personal life due to the amount of space it requires and the all noise it makes, so I never got into it much before working with KinkMen. Now, after practicing and performing it in a majority of my scenes, it’s safe to say I really enjoy it and even look forward to it every shoot. I’m definitely going to keep following that path in the near future and see where it takes me.
What’s something fans would be surprised to learn about you outside of your on-
camera persona?
Colt Spence: I think the fans would be surprised to learn that I am a pretty huge gamer. I honestly play about 1-4 hours every single day and lately I’ve been playing a lot of Fortnite, Overwatch and World of Warcraft. Recently I’ve been thinking about streaming online while I play so I can share this side of myself with fans, but I also have this bad habit of turning all of my hobbies into jobs so I may just keep it for myself.
What advice would you give to someone considering working in adult entertainment, especially in the kink space?
Colt Spence: As cliché as it may sound, my best advice to new performers is to show up and have fun! You would be surprised by how many times performers come to set in a bad mood or are just completely stuck in their own heads the entire day, plagued by worry or nervousness. If you arrive with great energy and a positive attitude, you are already miles ahead of the pack. We really have such a cool job and although it can definitely be challenging sometimes, you have to enjoy the whole ride and every turn it takes.
What’s next for you?
Colt Spence: I am currently preparing to launch my new website coltspencexx.com, where fans will be able to subscribe to my content directly and watch all of their favorite Colt Spence classics. I also have a bunch of new studio projects I can’t wait to share with everyone, including two great scenes with KinkMen coming soon!
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